… In mid life, most of us want to break out and have an inner personal makeover but we're discovering that we're becoming more and more set in our ways and unsure how to begin the process of the changes we want to see in ourselves. Music is healing, food and drink very comforting, getting yourself out there, developing new friendships, along with trying new venues and being open minded and trying new activities, setting new goals for your happiness are both risky and rewarding at the same time. Th …